by paulspeed | Mar 4, 2017 | Confession, Freedom
Taking Responsibility: How to Deal with Moral Failure The following information is a brief summary of some of the steps that a man should take to bring hidden things to the light. At a 4 Days 2 Freedom or Whatever It Takes Marriage Intensive, this is explained in...
by paulspeed | Nov 9, 2015 | Freedom, Love, Shame, Truth, Uncategorized
In a recent blog I was sharing some advice I would give to a new father. Three things came to mind and as I thought about it, I realized I would give this advice to any father. I combined the first two pieces in the first blog, but have held the third until now. It is...
by paulspeed | Sep 22, 2015 | Faith, Freedom, Truth
Recently I was asked to give some advice to a new dad. As I pondered a response, I thought of three important things I would share with any father, not just a new father. I regret not learning these things early in my marriage. Unfortunately, I share these with you...
by paulspeed | Jun 29, 2015 | Forgiveness, Freedom, Judgments, Reconciliation
Would you like to change your relationship with someone for the better? If you do, then make sure you don’t have judgments toward them. Over the last year, one of the biggest breakthroughs Jenny and I experienced in our relationship, came as we dealt with...
by paulspeed | May 29, 2015 | Confession, Freedom, Humility, Intimacy, Shame, Truth
Why do we spend so much effort trying to convince those around us we don’t have any flaws? In 2002, after I came clean with Jenny it began to dawn on me that I had spent 39 years of my life pretending to be someone I was not. Was it fear of rejection or not...
by paulspeed | Apr 15, 2015 | Freedom, Intimacy, Love, Shame
In 1967, The Beatles released a song that went straight to number one that said, “All you need is love, love is all you need”. This was, of course, just before The Beatles broke up! Nevertheless, the message does contain some powerful truths. When I look at the life...