Paul & Jenny Speed

helping couples and individuals do

“whatever it takes” to succeed

in marriage and life!

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WIT Couple's Intensive

This Couple’s Intensive is not your typical Christian marriage conference. This weekend will give you the tools you need to be able to do “whatever it takes” to succeed in your marriage.

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Ladies 4 Days 2 HOPE

During these powerful weekends, women are led through the steps of how to release those who have wounded them and truly walk in forgiveness.

 

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Men's 4 Days 2 FREEDOM

4 Days 2 Freedom Men’s Weekend is designed to help men break free from pornography addictions, sexual addictions, substance addictions, and more, as well as learn to walk in freedom from past failures. Don’t let defeat define your life anymore.

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WIT ALIVE for singles

WIT ALIVE Singles is a life-changing, world-altering weekend! WIT ALIVE will help you identify the areas of your life that need God’s wisdom and understanding. Not only will it prepare you for marriage, but it will prepare you for Life!

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Latest Blog Posts & Podcasts

Taking Responsibility: How to Deal with Moral Failure

The following information is a brief summary of some of the steps that a man should take to bring hidden things to the light. At a 4 Days 2 Freedom or Whatever It Takes Marriage Intensive, this is explained in detail and expounded upon for hours along with other steps...
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Three Pitfalls Every Dad Should Avoid – Part 3

Three Pitfalls Every Dad Should Avoid: (Part 3) How To Talk to Your Kids About Sexuality (Click here to read Part 1 and Part 2.) Talking about sexuality with our kids can be very challenging. For this blog, I’m not speaking about “the birds and the bees” or a how to...
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How To Honor Christmas All The Year

"I will honor Christmas in my heart, and try to keep it all the year." - Charles Dickens What better way to "honor Christmas" than to play Christmas music year round? OCD... Yes! I have it, and I am proud of it. Obsessive Christmas Disorder. Jenny tells me that...
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Gratefulness, the Key to Joy!

As I sit here pondering the upcoming holiday week of Thanksgiving, I'm reminded of my precious friend Judy. Judy is the most grateful person I have ever met in my life and yet she has suffered more heartache and pain than most people I know. Judy grew up poor in a...
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Three Pitfalls Every Dad Should Avoid – Part 2

In a recent blog I was sharing some advice I would give to a new father. Three things came to mind and as I thought about it, I realized I would give this advice to any father. I combined the first two pieces in the first blog, but have held the third until now. It is...
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4 Days 2 Freedom

Words can’t describe how much I appreciate what you and the team did for me this weekend. My journey isn’t complete and I still have some walls to break down but one thing I know for sure, on Sunday, the old Sonny died!! God is now making things new.

Sonny – Florida

4 Days 2 Hope

After struggling for an entire year trying to find forgiveness and hope, during this weekend I realized it was my own sin and my past that was blocking me. My marriage has finally been reconciled and restored for His glory.

Krista – Montana

WIT ALIVE

My parent’s marriage was on the verge of disaster. Now, they love each other more than ever.  After seeing my dad completely break and change, I began searching for the powerful God who I had so long resented. I accepted Him after coming clean as well.  I am a different man because of it. Josh – Texas

WIT Couples Intensive

Can’t tell you the drastic difference in my marriage, something only God could do. Just an awesome blessing.

Bobby – Florida

4 Days 2 Freedom

This weekend has shown me so many things that be been missing in may life. I must and will through Christ overcome this struggle!! This weekend has provided me with most importantly…HOPE! Hope that I can be free.

Jerry – Canada

4 Days 2 Hope

The 4 Days 2 Hope weekend made me stop thinking and focusing on every hurt I had endured; in its place it helped me start thinking about every hurt I had overcome. It helped me get from a victim mentality of unforgiveness, to a mentality of victory OVER the unforgiveness that had been weighing down on my soul. God did this for me and it only took Him four days!

Melissa – Georgia

WIT ALIVE

WIT Alive has given me the ability to begin to recognize the thought processes that have brought bondage in my life. I am beginning to understand the train of thoughts that have lead me to overeating all these years.

Marie – New York

WIT Couples Intensive

Can’t tell you the drastic difference in my marriage, something only God could do. Just an awesome blessing.

Bobby – Florida